In 2023, I had the privilege of visiting Rome with a different pilgrimage group and travel agency. That journey exceeded all of my expectations: It not only calmed my initial fears and anxieties but also provided a deeply enriching spiritual experience. Naturally, when I signed up for this year’s pilgrimage, I anticipated something similar: Meaningful encounters at the sacred sites, balanced with opportunities to explore other parts of Italy such as Orvieto, Assisi, Sorrento, and Capri. I expected differences, of course, given the expanded itinerary, but I assumed the overall quality would remain consistent. Unfortunately, this was not the case.
While I truly valued the chance to see additional cities, meet new people, and share fellowship with my fellow parishioners, I found myself increasingly disappointed by how tightly packed the schedule was. Others felt the same throughout the trip. The pace left us with little opportunity to engage with the sites in the depth they deserve. For example, our visit to St. Peter’s Basilica lasted only 10–15 minutes. For first-time visitors, this was especially disheartening. We stood in a single spot near St. Andrew’s statue after entering through the Holy Door and passing St. Peter’s tomb before we left. Similarly, we did not even have the chance to tour St. John Lateran Basilica, one of the most significant churches in Rome.
The sheer size of our group, nearly 50 people, was a major factor in these limitations. Managing such a large number inevitably slowed down transitions, made it difficult to adhere to the schedule, and reduced the time available at each destination. The tour guide, Lucia, did a great job with handling such a large group, but overall, it was a challenge time and time again. The extensive travel required by bus, van, and on foot only compounded the issue. With so many people moving together, the logistics became unrealistic, and the planned itinerary simply could not be executed as intended.
Although I remain grateful for the opportunity to see more of Italy and to share in the communal aspects of the pilgrimage, I cannot overlook the frustration of feeling rushed through places that deserve reverence, reflection, and time. Pilgrimages are meant to be transformative, not hurried, and this experience highlighted how critical thoughtful planning and group size are to ensuring that the journey fulfills its spiritual purpose.